Attitude Adjustment for Child Custody Litigants

How To Use This Book

This is a unique book compiled especially for you. You will get as much out of it as you put into it! You can read the whole book in a couple of hours and learn a little.

OR

You can take the time to read and contemplate each listing. 

First decide if the listing has anything to do with what you are experiencing. If it doesn't skip that listing and go on to the next. 

If it does apply to something you are experiencing, think about what the listing is saying to you. Take the time to see if there is some new way for you to see an incident, your situation, or the other party. 

Above all be very truthful with yourself. Allow yourself to step back. Look at incidents and situations from your child's point of view, the point of view of the other parent, the point of view of the court, and the point of view of the long term impact of what is happening. 

Your instincts may be affirmed by the listing. The way you have been handling a situation may be challenged by the listing. The listing may help you understand why someone is behaving in a particular manner. The listing may help you change your life in a way that will make this process easier.

This isn't a big life changing program. It is small tips, bits, ideas that can help you NOW!

Parents who have this book say it has made them a new and different person when dealing with the stresses of a child custody case.

Remember it is your choice as to what you want to do with your case, and only you can change it. That is IF you really want to. Many, many people want things to change but don't want to change themselves. Why should they? They have so many people feeling sorry for them!

We all learned when we were small children that to get attention all we had to do was cry or sulk and that would we get attention! Well, many of us are still in that old way of thinking! Have you fallen into that trap?

You see, if you have the courage to change how you see things and what you can do about them you can. This can be your first step.

This is a very simple book written with a lot of things for you to think about.

Book Description: 1,792 Tips, Traps & Tricks.

Advice is usually given by people without the real information or life experience, with the right intention at the wrong time. With this book you can take advice when you want it and are ready to hear it. You can act on what you have learned, mull it over or discard the advice all together without interference. This book will not allow you to give the other side power you might imagine but that they do not really have or let you allow others to diminish the importance you play in your children's lives. This book has been called 'Chicken Soup' for the Child Custody Case. It will help a lot and it certainly can't hurt.

From the Compiler:

Ever since we were forced into the custody case arena in 1991, we have looked for ‘The Right Answer’. We wanted to know what the mediators, evaluators, and judges wanted to hear. We were willing to paint ourselves yellow if that’s what they wanted.
(I don’t even look good in yellow.)

Years of working with thousands of other parents and grandparents individually and in parent's rights groups, with child protective service agencies in nine major cities, attending seminars with counselors, attorneys and psychologists and interviewing attorneys, judges, mediators and guardian ad litems; reading many books on custody and writing several of our own we have found out here is no "the right answer".

Our cases, lives, children, communities and the laws that affect us vary to such a huge degree that there are too many answers. This book deals with what others do to us, what we do to ourselves; love, pain, fear, the past, present, and future, perception and perspective. This is not a book of legal advice or pat answers just a book of suggestions and options. Use what you can and ignore the rest.

Charlotte Hardwick

About the Compiler:

Since 1991, Charlotte Hardwick has written seven books dealing with child custody. Her work brings a fresh view to the situations faced by children, parents, grandparents, stepparents and the people who care about them. Charlotte's ability to offer innovative new options for common problems as well as situation specific alternatives is a gift to those lost in pain, anger and defeat. Her personal custody success is eclipsed by the experience gained since 1992 in hands on research, and interaction with parents, attorneys, judges, psychologists, mediators, guidance counselors, law enforcement, activists, legislators and adult children of child custody disputes.

The calming effect her books produce is as comforting as holding a friends hand. Many of the processes are explained in a step by step manner with many examples.

The information is empowering and healing. Charlotte has been a frequent speaker at parents rights groups and professional business organizations. Human resource professionals are acutely aware of how a custody battle negatively affects an employee and can even reduce the production of other closely related employees with whom they interact. Charlotte's work can shorten the time-line of the initial custody battle, reduce the costs considerably, and minimize the long term negative effects for the children, employee, family and employer.

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